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Specialist help with drugs, alcohol and the things underneath them.

I'm Paul Burrows, an addiction counsellor with lived experience of trauma and recovery. We work at a pace that suits you, and nothing has to be settled in the first session.

MSc Psychology · FDAC specialist · Online sessions available UK-wide

My approach

Less telling you what to do. More working out what's going on.

  • 01We start with what's happening now, not with a list of your failures.
  • 02Change is treated as something you decide, at a pace you choose.
  • 03I bring tools from several evidence-based approaches and use what helps you.
  • 04Sessions are online, so recovery can happen from your own home.
"Part of you wants to change, and part of you doesn't. Both are telling you something useful." Working with ambivalence, one of my core ideas

You don't have to work this out on your own.

Online sessions are available across the UK. Reaching out is the first step, and it's a good one.

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headParts

The self

The Self has many positive traits, according to Schwartz’s model, including the eight Cs and the five Ps. The presence of these traits can help identify how much of the Self is available at a given time and how much of the Self may still need to emerge.

The eight Cs are:

  1. Confidence
  2. Calmness
  3. Creativity
  4. Clarity
  5. Curiosity
  6. Courage
  7. Compassion
  8. Connectedness

The five Ps are:

  1. Presence
  2. Patience
  3. Perspective
  4. Persistence
  5. Playfulness

Therapists can help patients identify their parts and release the burdens that these parts carry. To do so, they can follow a six step process:

  1. Find: Identify the parts of your mind and body that need attention.
  2. Focus: Pay attention to the relevant part.
  3. Flesh: Flesh it out by describing it and your experience of it.
  4. Feel: Explore how you feel toward this part.
  5. BeFriend: Express curiosity about this part and accept its presence.
  6. Fear: Ask what this part fears and what it would fear if you changed its role.

Learning to recognize and explore these parts can help patients shift how their parts function and create positive change.