Hear the emotion behind the words

Did you know: It’s the higher frequencies of human speech that impart emotion. You can become more attuned to these frequencies by exercising the tiny muscles of your middle ear (the smallest in the body). Try singing, playing a wind instrument, or listening to certain types of high-frequency music (a Mozart symphony or violin concerto, for example, rather than low-frequency rock, pop, or hip-hop).

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Improving communication skills in your work and personal relationships

Effective communication is the fundamental tool that helps deepen your connections to others and improve teamwork, problem solving, and your social and emotional health. However,  too often, what we try to communicate goes astray. We say one thing, the other person hears something else, then misunderstanding, frustration, and conflict ensues. Whether you’re trying to improve communication with your spouse, kids, boss, or co-workers, you can learn the skills to interact more effectively, improve your relationships, and build greater trust and respect with others.

More than just the words you use, effective communication combines a set of 4 skills:

  1. Engaged listening
  2. Non-verbal communication
  3. Managing stress in the moment
  4. Asserting yourself in a respectful way

While these are learned skills, communication is more effective when it’s spontaneous - cliched responses can create seriously differing thoughts about what was said. This could lead to an untenable situation. A speech that is read, for example, rarely has the same impact as a speech that’s delivered (or appears to be delivered) spontaneously. Of course, it takes time and effort to develop these skills and become an effective communicator. The more effort and practice you put in, the more instinctive and natural your communication skills will become.

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